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“Growing up is____”

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       Growing up is weird. But I can't help but feel a mix of excitement and nervousness about what lies ahead. One of the things that fascinates me about growing up is how our perspectives and priorities change over time. As a child, the world seemed so big and mysterious, and I was eager to explore it. Now, as I prepare for college, I find myself contemplating career paths, financial independence, and making important life decisions. It's a pivotal moment where I have the chance to shape my future. But along with the excitement, there's also a sense of fear. The unknown can be intimidating. Will I be able to handle the challenges that come my way? Will I make the right choices? Will I be able to balance my academic pursuits with personal growth and social experiences? These questions linger in the back of my mind, occasionally causing moments of self-doubt.  However, as I reflect on the concept of growing up, I realize that fear is a natural part of the proce...

Who are you?

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Who are you? Discovering our identity can be an ever-evolving journey don't you agree? There are moments when we question who we really are. It can leave us feeling puzzled. It's completely normal to have doubts, about our identity especially when we take the time to reflect on ourselves. Our identity isn't fixed; it's influenced by factors. Our connections, experiences, values, ideas and even our thoughts all play a role, in shaping who we really are. By exploring these aspects we can gain an understanding of ourselves. If you still find yourself unable to answer the question “Who are you?” after exploring these aspects. Don’t be anxious or afraid. As people, we are more complex than the simple question of “Who are you?”. Written by Jody:))

Writing for the soul.

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Words feed the hunger of the soul Actions feed the thoughts that come forth Feelings are dependent on the mind  And the heart controls the need for such feelings What does encountering mean to a person of ignorance And how does encountering affect a person that wants ignorance Writing is like taking a breath of fresh air and speaking all the frustration out  Not just the frustration but excitement  Writing is art and Art is expressed by writing. Written by Alyssa Chin Photo Credits (Lisa Sinclair )

What Is Love?

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   We all questioned ourselves once in our lifetime. What is love? A person can define love through biblical terms, phycological terms, philosophical terms and so much more. Nonetheless, many people are unable to define what love is. So the question of what is love arises once more. What is love?    The Bible defines love as more than just a romantic attraction or strong feelings towards those close to you; it says love is the truth, respect, and obedience people hold for God. One of the greatest commandments of all is to love one another. However, if people fail to know what love is, how can they demonstrate it in their lives? Is it that this love that people don't understand is demonstrated, but they don't see it because of their perspective of love? According to the Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy, philosophers view love by drawing on relevant theories of human nature, desire, ethics, and so on. Eros, philia, and agape are the three natures of love. However, ...

Your Time.

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You can't help others unless you help yourself first. If you do this, you are simply pouring from an empty cup. It's time to focus on yourself because it's time to heal. It's important to note, that I said it's time for you to heal. The time you spent healing others before healing yourself is over . Trying your hardest every day to make others happy, while dying on the inside is futile. It may have a positive impact on someone's day, but what impact does draining yourself as a fake optimist have on you? You're giving it your all, and it's obvious, but you're wondering if it's enough. Every day, you plan for the perfect future, not realizing that no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to control it. You cry at night because of the stress you've placed on yourself, and you're not sure where you went wrong. Life…Life is a never-ending journey; sometimes you'll be lost, sometimes you'll be found; it all depends on your det...

New New.

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The chapter of 2022 has closed and a new one has been turned. We all hope for better this year and truth be told I believe it can happen.  Today we can choose how we proceed in our actions, tomorrow we can adjust the mistakes of today, and yesterday's problems are simply the past. It's all somewhat easier said than done but nevertheless we won't know if it's possible if we don't try. This year I plan to take more risks, grow spiritually and leave those behind that only wish to see me sink. 2022 was hard but we made it, who would have thought? Never doubt that you can because the very impossible is very possible in this world.  So take control of your dreams and don't allow others to dictate your future. I might not know who I will be in the Next year or two but what I do know is right now in this moment I'm happy.  Here are a few things I found that will hopefully get me through a year filled with unknowns. 1. Trust your instincts, the least you can be is wr...

Promises.

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You promised. Promise to never leave, these promises of empty platitudes I believed. These words I held onto but your actions proved my belief wrong. It was never truly about me, but always of you which I never complained about. However, now that I'm here cleaning your mess I wish I had said something. I try to hold onto you because I promised to never leave, but now that you have left, I wonder how much longer will I keep my word. You promised to try but like every word you utter, it is a lie and that’s why I never believe your words because your actions always prove me wrong. You only want me when you need me. You have proven my inner demons right. Indeed they were when they said you would leave and come running back in times of trouble. Indeed I was to believe what they said was true. For you did leave, you left me...Ironically now that you have returned, you want me to stay. Making me state a promise after you broke me. “ In life, people come and go, and we usually try to hold...

Aging with Depression.

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It's the start of a new year yet I feel there is no need to celebrate. Of course, I am happy that I'm still going but it just feels like I've started losing the joy of the holidays that go by. I remember always being excited for my birthday, a new year, Christmas, easter, and the rest but now it just seems like I'm outgrowing what used to make up my childhood. As such, I'm feeling increasingly conflicted as the years go by. I am now getting an understanding of why people don't celebrate or care for them much anymore but to be honest, I really want to keep those occasions a part of my usual lifestyle and I want to be able to count down the days and feel the regular enthusiastic me. Somehow it feels like a chunk of my heart has been ripped out and I'm losing what seems to be my childhood adventures and venturing into the world of adulthood. Not only am I scared, but the pressure of becoming an adult and the expectations that come with it will start to bear on ...

An Overthinker.

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It's not that I don't trust you but that I am scared a matter of fact terrified too. ''History repeats itself, first as tragedy second a farse.'' This quote makes me wonder if will you be my farse? A serious situation turned into an absurd joke... If that's the case, then tell me now, so I can leave. For I know I won't be able to get over you. I don't want to doubt you, but with every word that comes out of your mouth, all I can think about are the worst-case scenarios. It's difficult to explain what's going on, and I apologize for your exhaustion. I don't want you to leave, but with these thoughts, I believe it's in your best interests. To save yourself from me. An overthinker I am. Overthinkers most of us are, people I believe, who are over-lovers that had poured our hearts out into situations and have gotten hurt. Constantly battling with our thoughts, hoping to receive constant reassurance.    Written by Athalia Photo Credits( Dar...

Drug Abuse.

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I'd like to convey my concern about the rise in the number of drug users in our society. Despite widespread awareness of the dangers and negative consequences of drug addiction, the number of drug users in our society continues to rise. There are numerous reasons why people use drugs. Addicts usually begin out of curiosity, for enjoyment, or to break a monotonous pattern of life. Once a person begins to use drugs, there is no going back for them, and no matter how hard they try, they will not be able to break free from this horrible habit. It's no longer the jittery adolescent venturing into a dangerous world. But it is the enraged adolescent who is venturing into an uncertain environment with no idea what to anticipate. The difficulties and stresses of modern living have been exacerbated by the world's rising population and incredible technological progress. Young people are increasingly succumbing to drug addiction as a result of their inability to cope with increased pre...

Oh, what a lovely place our island has become.

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Am I supposed to be afraid of my own country? Afraid of walking the streets and going out at night. Holding back my expressions because of the mistake others could take it for. Why should I be afraid of being me? This country is portrayed as a must-see island that you can come to for vacation but if I was a foreigner would I ever visit a place like this? A country that is known for many but is slowly deteriorating because of its people. The killings, abductions, and oh so many more, I can't even look away from a predictable future.  I can't imagine that the roads I used to play long ago have now become crime scenes filled with gore. Children playing on the streets have to be adjusting to these pandemic times and now the fear of being taken away. The murderers who used to hide under the covers now surface as if they are being called upon. The country that was filled with tourists has now become a hallow island filled with only the people that either can't go anywhere and or ...

How to get children to read (teens opinion)

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Ok, so this is a big issue for most parents not only parents but schools. To get your child to read. There are so many reasons as to why the children refuse to read and there are also many ways to get them hooked on reading. It just all depends on the book. The overall concept of reading is to broaden their vocabulary skills and to have them more proficient in reading and how to use context clues. Children are more likely to read a book of their choice rather than one an adult recommends, why? because it's more interesting to them. That's the way to get them hooked on reading. Start off with books they would enjoy and start to increase the difficulty level until you reach the point where they are intrigued by books and can't stop reading.  There are a variety of books to discover and it all depends on which the child prefers. In cases where parents are trying to help develop a child's vocabulary, they tend to for educational books that most of the time bores the child....