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       Feeling alone is a common pain that everyone has experienced occasionally, and it goes beyond being alone. Our spirits are touched by the calm need for real connections. The paradox of loneliness endures in a society where connections are greater than ever before, highlighting the human desire for genuine company.      At its core, loneliness is about the emotional echoes that bounce off the walls of our hearts, not just about physical isolation. This feeling of isolation can occasionally become more intense in the digital age due to the frequent updates on social media and virtual interactions. We frequently find ourselves yearning for genuine face-to-face experiences that make us feel fully alive despite the abundance of online connections.      Overcoming loneliness requires proactive painting on the canvas of life, making it an art form. Our genuine selves are revealed as we pursue our hobbies, and the joy of connecting with l...

  Emotions Part 1: Overwhelming.  We live in a fast-paced world where it's too easy to become overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities. Workplace deadlines and personal obligations can frequently leave one feeling overwhelmed. The feeling that time is slipping through our fingers as we watch the clock tick away is one that many of us can identify with. In this blog article, we'll look at how it's usual to feel overwhelmed and talk about how to get unstuck and find serenity while metaphorically watching the clock from the sofa. A complicated and overwhelming feeling may show itself in a lot of different areas of our lives. It frequently appears when our imagined ability to cope with the demands on our time and energy is exceeded. Overwhelmed by a mound of work-related chores, family obligations, or personal objectives may be a crippling sensation. A further source of stress is the visual representation of time passing by that comes from watching the clock and thinking time i...

       Love is a mysterious power that has captured people's hearts and thoughts for thousands of years. It is a subject that cuts over cultural divides and is fundamental to the human experience. Even with love's widespread in music, literature, and art, describing it is still as difficult as the range of human feelings it includes. We set out on a quest to discover the true nature of love Love is a kaleidoscope of feelings, each hue adding to the colourful fabric of human connection. It is not a single, distinct sensation. A strong sense of attachment, tenderness, and compassion are at the heart of love. A friend's warm hug, a parent's gentle care, and a strong magnetic pull are what entice two souls to get entangled romantically. Love can sail across the choppy waters of selflessness and sacrifice in addition to the warmth of familiarity. It is the readiness to set aside our wants in favour of another's, to suffer setbacks for the sake of a common goal, and to de...

  Beauty Standards  In a world bombarded with glossy magazines, flawless social media influencers, and airbrushed advertisements, beauty has often been reduced to a narrow, unrealistic standard. But let's pause for a moment and ask ourselves: What truly defines beauty? Beauty is diverse, dynamic, and deeply personal. It transcends the boundaries of societal expectations, reflecting the uniqueness that each individual brings to the table. Unfortunately, the media often portrays a singular, unattainable image of beauty, leaving many feeling inadequate and pressured to conform. The relentless pursuit of perfection has led us down a path where flaws are airbrushed away, and imperfections are hidden. But here's a radical idea: imperfections are what make us human, and embracing them is a powerful form of self-love. In reality, beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and colours. It's in the laughter lines that trace the joyous moments of our lives, and the scars that signify streng...

       A friend is often someone with whom you experience a bond. Growing up we develop friendships with different people. Friendship also plays a vital role in our personal growth and development. Through our interactions with friends, we learn about ourselves, our values, and our beliefs. Friends challenge us to see things from different perspectives, encouraging us to step out of our comfort zones and explore new ideas. They provide honest feedback, helping us to become better versions of ourselves.      Friends serve as sources of inspiration, offering belief and encouragement when we doubt ourselves or face challenges. They act as cheerleaders, celebrating our successes and motivating us to overcome failures. Their presence empowers us to take risks and strive for our dreams and aspirations. Friendships naturally evolve and change as we go through life. Sometimes, despite our efforts, certain friendships may fade due to personal growth and sh...

       Growing up is weird. But I can't help but feel a mix of excitement and nervousness about what lies ahead. One of the things that fascinates me about growing up is how our perspectives and priorities change over time. As a child, the world seemed so big and mysterious, and I was eager to explore it. Now, as I prepare for college, I find myself contemplating career paths, financial independence, and making important life decisions. It's a pivotal moment where I have the chance to shape my future. But along with the excitement, there's also a sense of fear. The unknown can be intimidating. Will I be able to handle the challenges that come my way? Will I make the right choices? Will I be able to balance my academic pursuits with personal growth and social experiences? These questions linger in the back of my mind, occasionally causing moments of self-doubt.  However, as I reflect on the concept of growing up, I realize that fear is a natural part of the proce...

Who are you? Discovering our identity can be an ever-evolving journey don't you agree? There are moments when we question who we really are. It can leave us feeling puzzled. It's completely normal to have doubts, about our identity especially when we take the time to reflect on ourselves. Our identity isn't fixed; it's influenced by factors. Our connections, experiences, values, ideas and even our thoughts all play a role, in shaping who we really are. By exploring these aspects we can gain an understanding of ourselves. If you still find yourself unable to answer the question “Who are you?” after exploring these aspects. Don’t be anxious or afraid. As people, we are more complex than the simple question of “Who are you?”. Written by Jody:))

My heart calls your name, You're the initial thought That welcomes my mornings, And guides me to my slumber. You're the breath that sustains me, The vital force that propels me forward, In this arid world, You rejuvenate my soul. With your beauty, but above all, your affection, How fortunate I am, To have been graced with a woman like you.       Written by Athalia                                                             Photo Credits ( Stephan Andreas)

Words feed the hunger of the soul Actions feed the thoughts that come forth Feelings are dependent on the mind  And the heart controls the need for such feelings What does encountering mean to a person of ignorance And how does encountering affect a person that wants ignorance Writing is like taking a breath of fresh air and speaking all the frustration out  Not just the frustration but excitement  Writing is art and Art is expressed by writing. Written by Alyssa Chin Photo Credits (Lisa Sinclair )

   We all questioned ourselves once in our lifetime. What is love? A person can define love through biblical terms, phycological terms, philosophical terms and so much more. Nonetheless, many people are unable to define what love is. So the question of what is love arises once more. What is love?    The Bible defines love as more than just a romantic attraction or strong feelings towards those close to you; it says love is the truth, respect, and obedience people hold for God. One of the greatest commandments of all is to love one another. However, if people fail to know what love is, how can they demonstrate it in their lives? Is it that this love that people don't understand is demonstrated, but they don't see it because of their perspective of love? According to the Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy, philosophers view love by drawing on relevant theories of human nature, desire, ethics, and so on. Eros, philia, and agape are the three natures of love. However, ...

You can't help others unless you help yourself first. If you do this, you are simply pouring from an empty cup. It's time to focus on yourself because it's time to heal. It's important to note, that I said it's time for you to heal. The time you spent healing others before healing yourself is over . Trying your hardest every day to make others happy, while dying on the inside is futile. It may have a positive impact on someone's day, but what impact does draining yourself as a fake optimist have on you? You're giving it your all, and it's obvious, but you're wondering if it's enough. Every day, you plan for the perfect future, not realizing that no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to control it. You cry at night because of the stress you've placed on yourself, and you're not sure where you went wrong. Life…Life is a never-ending journey; sometimes you'll be lost, sometimes you'll be found; it all depends on your det...

Maybe it can be different or maybe not Just reach for me and look at me like I was the one you want to see. Just acknowledge who I am and where I stand  Just look at me the way you look at her  Talk about me the way you talk about her Be with me the way you wish to be with her  Why is it always her?  Why do you make everything about her? I want you! Can't you see me and what I do for you Can't you just imagine the pain you've caused me  Why am I second to her  Why is she the one you care for even though she doesn't even look at you I, I, I love you! More than she ever could or ever would I could make you happy where she would bring sorrow I can bring light where she would be dark Why do you choose her over me?  Me, the one who has been here all along  Why must you be this way to me? I miss you! Just give me a chance for me to give you love  Just make the time for us to grow with love Just give me one chance to bring you love  Just give m...

The chapter of 2022 has closed and a new one has been turned. We all hope for better this year and truth be told I believe it can happen.  Today we can choose how we proceed in our actions, tomorrow we can adjust the mistakes of today, and yesterday's problems are simply the past. It's all somewhat easier said than done but nevertheless we won't know if it's possible if we don't try. This year I plan to take more risks, grow spiritually and leave those behind that only wish to see me sink. 2022 was hard but we made it, who would have thought? Never doubt that you can because the very impossible is very possible in this world.  So take control of your dreams and don't allow others to dictate your future. I might not know who I will be in the Next year or two but what I do know is right now in this moment I'm happy.  Here are a few things I found that will hopefully get me through a year filled with unknowns. 1. Trust your instincts, the least you can be is wr...

You promised. Promise to never leave, these promises of empty platitudes I believed. These words I held onto but your actions proved my belief wrong. It was never truly about me, but always of you which I never complained about. However, now that I'm here cleaning your mess I wish I had said something. I try to hold onto you because I promised to never leave, but now that you have left, I wonder how much longer will I keep my word. You promised to try but like every word you utter, it is a lie and that’s why I never believe your words because your actions always prove me wrong. You only want me when you need me. You have proven my inner demons right. Indeed they were when they said you would leave and come running back in times of trouble. Indeed I was to believe what they said was true. For you did leave, you left me...Ironically now that you have returned, you want me to stay. Making me state a promise after you broke me. “ In life, people come and go, and we usually try to hold...

It's the start of a new year yet I feel there is no need to celebrate. Of course, I am happy that I'm still going but it just feels like I've started losing the joy of the holidays that go by. I remember always being excited for my birthday, a new year, Christmas, easter, and the rest but now it just seems like I'm outgrowing what used to make up my childhood. As such, I'm feeling increasingly conflicted as the years go by. I am now getting an understanding of why people don't celebrate or care for them much anymore but to be honest, I really want to keep those occasions a part of my usual lifestyle and I want to be able to count down the days and feel the regular enthusiastic me. Somehow it feels like a chunk of my heart has been ripped out and I'm losing what seems to be my childhood adventures and venturing into the world of adulthood. Not only am I scared, but the pressure of becoming an adult and the expectations that come with it will start to bear on ...

It's not that I don't trust you but that I am scared a matter of fact terrified too. ''History repeats itself, first as tragedy second a farse.'' This quote makes me wonder if will you be my farse? A serious situation turned into an absurd joke... If that's the case, then tell me now, so I can leave. For I know I won't be able to get over you. I don't want to doubt you, but with every word that comes out of your mouth, all I can think about are the worst-case scenarios. It's difficult to explain what's going on, and I apologize for your exhaustion. I don't want you to leave, but with these thoughts, I believe it's in your best interests. To save yourself from me. An overthinker I am. Overthinkers most of us are, people I believe, who are over-lovers that had poured our hearts out into situations and have gotten hurt. Constantly battling with our thoughts, hoping to receive constant reassurance.    Written by Athalia Photo Credits( Dar...

Let's be honest, we all have that one person that we cling to and believe that we can't let go but the question has become more prominent. How far should you go? I believed in the idea of never giving up on someone but until I entered my stage of breaking I came to the conclusion that sometimes even though attached you have to let them go. I started losing myself in trying to fix whatever was wrong and trying to keep this person by my side but with the number of issues that continued to pile up and when one starts walking away it will fail because there are two in a relationship and to communicate and make things work. I learned this the hard way. In giving advice after this experience, I'll now say try as hard as you can but don't lose yourself because finding who you are again or if you didn't know before will make the love you have for yourself develop into hate or push you down a path that will take a while to recover from. Although I had people around me tellin...

It is thought that waking up every day is a blessing from God,  but for some of us, it is quite the reverse. Although your body moves, your thoughts are sluggish, ponderous, and oppressive. Your stomach begs for food, but your mind refuses... You want to be thin and little, therefore you reject and disregard all of the lyrics in the song that scare your beauty. This slows you down ten times faster than previously. You could wonder, "Why am I here?" Is this how a human in his or her natural state should feel?  Where has the promised motivation gone?  Where is the love that should be all around me at all times?  Why am I the one whose tears bring rain and storms?  Why am I carrying out the command “Cry me a river”? These are the things you say as you desperately want to end it all.  You want to stop feeling that sharp pain in your chest every time you think about the times you were happy… The days when you'd plan your fun activities, now you're wishing you do...

I'd like to convey my concern about the rise in the number of drug users in our society. Despite widespread awareness of the dangers and negative consequences of drug addiction, the number of drug users in our society continues to rise. There are numerous reasons why people use drugs. Addicts usually begin out of curiosity, for enjoyment, or to break a monotonous pattern of life. Once a person begins to use drugs, there is no going back for them, and no matter how hard they try, they will not be able to break free from this horrible habit. It's no longer the jittery adolescent venturing into a dangerous world. But it is the enraged adolescent who is venturing into an uncertain environment with no idea what to anticipate. The difficulties and stresses of modern living have been exacerbated by the world's rising population and incredible technological progress. Young people are increasingly succumbing to drug addiction as a result of their inability to cope with increased pre...

Am I supposed to be afraid of my own country? Afraid of walking the streets and going out at night. Holding back my expressions because of the mistake others could take it for. Why should I be afraid of being me? This country is portrayed as a must-see island that you can come to for vacation but if I was a foreigner would I ever visit a place like this? A country that is known for many but is slowly deteriorating because of its people. The killings, abductions, and oh so many more, I can't even look away from a predictable future.  I can't imagine that the roads I used to play long ago have now become crime scenes filled with gore. Children playing on the streets have to be adjusting to these pandemic times and now the fear of being taken away. The murderers who used to hide under the covers now surface as if they are being called upon. The country that was filled with tourists has now become a hallow island filled with only the people that either can't go anywhere and or ...